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| Sarah says it all. |
Here's a quick explanation to my slow blog entries. I've been having trouble being at the computer whereas I've been down with a bronchial/pneumonia thing. As respiratory summer viruses go, this is the pits.
When I saw Sarah's photo from one of our earlier programs, the photo says it for me. I've closed my eyes and slept for hours, pushed everyone away because I couldn't think and needed time to start recovery. The hard part of this bronchial thingy is that doctors tell you they can't do anything because it's a virus. Then when it becomes bronchitis or pneumonia they medicate you. Meanwhile, I've had to keep camp moving.
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| Learning how to interact with new people is the name of the game. |
So from that explanation let's jump into activities at camp. I've got a fun bunch of photos from the start of last week. Most of the pictures here are from our very first night together when everyone was getting acquainted.
I do believe there is a process at Sprucelands. The kids come into camp and then there is an initial judging that takes place. They check us out. They watch each other, assessing who they want as friends and who they don't. I think that first step in making friends happens almost anywhere. Who is safe? Who is not?
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| Just turning the camera from one view to another changes my perceptions. |
When I observe the kids through a lens, again I have an intimate way of wondering what they are thinking. Who interacts easily? Who has a wall up around them as protection? Who jumps right in and doesn't care what people think? Who is reaching out to anyone and everyone?
As you stand in the middle of the group with me, just notice how moving the camera from one view to another can change your perception of what is happening. This particular activity was all about finding others who liked the same things you like.
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| Chants begin and cheers for their favorites make the evening totally fun. |
For example, the group was told to find others who like the same color. The kids buzzed around, asking others or shouting out loud things like, "Purple here. Anyone who loves purple." Others were shouting out "Yellow" or "Blue" or "Chartreuse" or "Indigo Blue" or whatever unique color they could come up with. Watching where they group themselves helps me - again - to know them better.
All kinds of topics were covered so campers and staff discovered where they had common ground. I think they went from horse colors and breeds to sports, foods, books, states of origin, ice cream, sneaker brands, etc. The spirit builds believe it or not and the barriers break down as the noise level increases.
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| Right here. You've got it! Uh-huh! |
Some of our campers get into the swing - so to speak - and let loose in fun ways that get laughs from everyone. It's contagious too. When one camper begins their silliness, so do others. Spontaneity breeds acceptance and that whole judging piece that was alive at the start of the evening falls by the wayside.
I tell my campers that's one of the miracles of Sprucelands. We accept each other for who we are. I've said it in thousands of previous blogs. As a result, we get campers and staff here who are well prepared to open up their hearts and welcome others in. It doesn't mean it's always easy because we have to work at our friendships. However, we are committed to creating a caring atmosphere, and that we do very well.
Your comments are always welcome.